Hi Friends... Once again I Have come with a New Blog. This blog will tell you some sharp and interesting observation between Arrange Marriage and Love Marriage.
I am writing some points regarding marriages which I have observed so far. Do not think I am pointing someone, It is related to me and my thoughts.
Below are some sharp observations:
- First: is completely related to our Families. Families play a vital role in marriage so the first point is to which family or background we are coming from. In reality, You belong to typical Indian society and as you are Indian you have no right to make decisions yourself. This is 2017 and still, we follow our elders and parents and can not disagree with their decision. I am not saying they are right or wrong I am just saying we are just followers. I have met with some friends and they say blah blah about this so the first point is devoted to our families.
- Second: If u want to make your parents happy then go to arrange a marriage. Despite so many opposes, we have so many examples where love marriage happened and it worked very well but most of the Arrange marriage success ratio is far better than love.
- Third: Another important aspect of Arrange marriage is as comparison to love marriage is that we can easily follow our society's rules and our own rituals and all.
- Fourth: As you have seen on FB there is a post of two kinds of Roti, one is fully baked and another is burnt. In my view, You will always get fully baked roti if you deserve it. Always care for your loved one and it is possible to arrange marriage.
- Fifth: If you are a firm believer in Compromise and adjustment go for Arrange marriage. It is my one of favorite points because my life taught me one lesson again and again and it is Compromise and Adjustment.
- Sixth :If you two belong to big families like Chaudhery, Reddy, Baniya, Chauhan, or any other so your marriage is going to be a big alliance so go for it. It makes so many people happy and it also believes in our society we have to make an alliance between similar people and status.
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Seventh: Arrange marriage has mutual understanding, compatibility, loyalty, trust, belief, and many more but in Love somewhere it is lacking because nowadays people do not have so much Patience. In arranged marriages, the couples must the consent of their parents. On the other hand, in most love marriages, the partners will not need the consent of the parents, or elders.
Unlike love marriages, arranged marriages are more stable. Divorces are seen less in arranged marriages, and there is a great family bond. - Eighth: Last line for all wives, wife-wife hoti hai and life hoti hai . If you look up for life longs stay go for arrange marriage and I am not going to comment about GF and others.
- Ninth: It is an interesting point. In arranged marriages, the parents will be thoroughly investigating the background of the bride and the groom. They will be looking into every aspect, like wealth, health conditions, and habits. In love marriages, the couples are not worried about any background investigations. It is just love that runs in their blood. I think so.
- Tenth: When talking about love, love has to be developed in an arranged marriage, as they will only know each other better after wedlock, but in a love marriage, the couples have always been in love, and there is no need to develop it. But in arranged marriages, the couples may or may not be able to understand each other very well, and also not know the likes and dislikes of each other. But now we have option of Phone and Internet with JIO.
- Eleventh: Another thing that is seen in arranged marriages, is that men are always more dominant than women. In a love marriage, the couples get to know each other ahead of wedlock. In such marriages, no one seems to be the dominant person over the other. This is a big issue and mostly seen in rural areas in India.
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