Hi Friends... This is the last blog of this year.
It has been a terrific year for me so many ups and downs I have gone through but as we know God will help you in every condition that is my current situation. You know this topic Loving Zindagi will teach you very simple phenomena of how to get rid of your bad memories. Nowadays people not having so much patience, they are very short temper but it is their way or may be their life experiences taught them.
I mean to say if you are getting so much success and you are happy means no Problems but if it is vice versa then it means you are in a dangerous condition. Maybe it is not necessary you may be good all the time or act like I am happy or maybe happy or not, does not matter what matters is your satisfaction, your good or bad memories. Do not let hate waste your time and disturb your inner peace for anything. I am telling you one thing if I am not happy with some one and I hated him very much it will also ruined my happiness but if I always remembered the best part, the loving part it will help me to grow, to explore the new things and may be I will be feel so much happiness in my mind and heart. I am going to tell you a good example like If you took some tomatoes and put it into one bag . Now you have to carry this bag with you every time, wherever you go, you have to carry this bag. After some time you will feel frustrated and complaining of the trouble that you had to go through because you were carrying one unnecessary heavy, smelly tomato bag everywhere.
Now this is the point. This is the same situation when you carry your hatred for somebody inside your heart. The stench of hatred will contaminate your heart and you will carry it with you wherever you go. If you can not tolerate the smell of tomatoes for just a few days, can you imagine what is it like to have the stench of hatred in your heart for your lifetime? So do not let hate urself.
Now I am going to tell you one positive thing that you have to carry just positivism from everywhere you involved. Either it may be your office with your work, in-home with your kids and wife, outside with your friends anywhere you can find out positivism and your happiness.
It is most of the time depends upon you how you want to live.
So do not let hate waste your valuable time and hamper your capabilities in life. Just hit it hard if it comes to you (life problems) because when there is problem so there should be some solution and this is life.
Wish you a very Happy New Year 2017
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