Hi Friends...This blog belongs to my daughter Riya.

She just turned one last week and I am sharing one important aspect of my life with all of you. Everybody has their own kind of wisdom and competence to understand things. These are my point of view to look forward in life and I want to share with all of you.

This blog is not basically for her, it is related to all girls and the importance of Girl in a family. The blog will define the identity of a Girl. I have seen so many good things with her and bad in our society, on one side we love Devi maa and always shown so much faith, and another side we want the only boys in our family. I heard mostly couple wants a boy. In my case, I am exceptional because I am ready for anything. She is my world now. Riya completes me. I do not want to compare my daughter to anyone or anything. I am not going to say girls are better than boys or vice versa. I am not going to define anything for her. I want she should write her own destiny on her terms. I will guide her always. I will be there for her but I want she should set some examples for all other girls.

I already knew, this is going to be the next Dangal for us and we will prepare ourselves every day. I have a desire she should prepare herself for all the challenges and obstacles. I have realized People around me so much biased with girls and boys. In my close relative, I have seen so many pathetic people who just want the only boys and the strange thing about them is they all are female. I cannot understand how someone can become so much biased with them. From my point of view, boys are Kul ka deepak and budape ka Sahara something like that but my simple recommendation for all to become independent and being resourceful.

I always believe girls are always superior to boys because if you give them a house they will make it home, a kitchen they will make food and if she is working so she is superwoman from my point. You know it is like we all are looking for Modi and Rahul or someone else who will make our country better with better opportunities but the real development of India belongs to his own countryman. If we are successful then we can make our country more successful. A great English teacher cannot teach you English until and unless you should try it yourself. This is the same. We have to change our environment, our mentality. The previous generation was very obedient to their ancestor, they are just obeying without even single thought but I expect this generation more humble and intelligent towards all issues. A person with a pathetic mindset can give you the only negative advice. I have seen my surroundings full of asshole people. But for my daughter, I will give her 100% opportunity to explore the world. She can choose anything like sports, academics, professional, and anything else. I am with her.

When I talked about biased people around me, basically they all belong to rural areas. Metro city people are good but when I visited some UP kind of area I have seen so many strange things which reflect the real Indian people. This is not new in our society, we are biased with girls and boys but I am not gonna support it in any way. And hoping someday Indian will grow a little bit more. Riya completed her one year. She seems a very cool type of girl, always smiling. Her attitude is supportive, wherever she goes, people love her.

Hope one day people will understand the reality of life and give equality to both of them.

I have full support for a child, not his/her gender. But my main reason for this blog is being independent and resourceful. Life has so many aspects, sometimes you like and sometimes you want to run & I want you to stand and not give up. If you have a boy or not, you should be self-sufficient. It is not like people do not like girls but they are biased. There are so many examples where I have realized they loved their girl more than a boy. But this is basically for those who are biased. I have seen there are two types of view that exist right now, one is the Modi view and the second is reality. We have to accept the reality, if someone getting the success we need to inspire not get jealous. Once we will solve one problem and that message will go to all and will definitely come with some new changes. You can relate these things to someone's incidents and can set some examples for others. Yes, we always say God is doing but we can not deny that until and unless we do not put our efforts, we do not get the desired result. Riya is my daughter and I love her so much. I think she is the one who inspired me most in the world but it did not mean that I will make her spoil brat-like. I am not that kind of person. I want she should understand these things herself and make the most of the opportunity whatever she get in her life.

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